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Tuesday, July 6, 2010

July is Child-Centered Divorce Month and The Women's Empower Hour welcomes special guest, Rosalind Sedacca.  Rosalind is recognized as The Voice of Child-Centered Divorce and has written a unique new book based on her own experience with divorce more than a decade ago. At that time she developed an innovative new approach to breaking the news to her eleven year-old son. Today he is a grown man who proudly wrote the introduction to her book, How Do I Tell the Kids About the Divorce? A Create-a-Storybook Guide To Preparing Your Children – With Love!  I think that this is such a relevant topic for today's society given that statistics indicate that the divorce rate is more than 50 percent in the United States. 

Divorce can be difficult, particularly for the children.  I have never been married, but I've heard of contentious divorces in which the children are put in the middle of the war, devastating them even more.  For anyone with children going through a divorce, it is so important to take into account the children's feelings.  I was watching an interview with Valerie Bertinelli as she spoke on her divorce and how she told her son.  She said something so very profound in that interview.  Paraphrasing, she said, “Love your children more than you hate your ex.” That is such good advice.  You may not like that you're going through a divorce or your ex, but when you use your children to hurt your ex, you also hurt your children.

To listen to tonight’s show on The Dreaded "Divorce Talk:" Preparing Your Children With Love, visit http://www.blogtalkradio.com/thewomensempowerhour/2010/07/07/the-dreaded-divorce-talk-preparing-your-children-with-love.  I would love to have you join us for this empowering discussion.  Also, follow me on Twitter at www.twitter.com/drcami for all of my radio show interviews.

I'm looking forward to having you as a listener of The Women's Empower Hour.

Have a awesome week!

6:17 pm mdt 

Monday, June 28, 2010

Ladies, Let's Talk: Rebuilding Your Life for Success

Happy Monday!  I am so excited that the Ladies, Let's Talk radio show is back.  The show is launching its second season tonight with a powerful discussion on "Rebuilding Your Life for Success."

June is Rebuild Your Life Month. We all have challenges, but at anytime we can rebuild our lives for success. The ladies and I are sharing our experiences, thoughts and perspectives on rebuilding your life, so that we are all living our best life.

A thought from me is that I believe the right attitude plays a vital role in rebuilding our lives for success.  A few years ago I read a powerful story on attitude called, The Window, which I'd like to share with all of you.

The Window

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour a day to drain the fluids from his lungs. His bed was next to the room's only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back.

The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation. And every afternoon when the man in the bed next to the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.

The man in the other bed would live for those one-hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the outside world. The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake, the man had said. 

Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Lovers walked arm in arm amid flowers of every color of the rainbow. Grand old trees graced the landscape, and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance. As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene.

One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by. Although the other man could not hear the band, he could see it in his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words. Unexpectedly, an alien thought entered his head: Why should he have all the pleasure of seeing everything while I never get to see anything? It didn't seem fair. 

As the thought fermented, the man felt ashamed at first. But as the days passed and he missed seeing more sights, his envy eroded into resentment and soon turned him sour. He began to brood and found himself unable to sleep. He should be by that window - and that thought now controlled his life.

Late one night, as he lay staring at the ceiling, the man by the window began to cough. He was choking on the fluid in his lungs. The other man watched in the dimly lit room as the struggling man by the window groped for the button to call for help. Listening from across the room, he never moved, never pushed his own button which would have brought the nurse running. In less than five minutes, the coughing and choking stopped, along with the sound of breathing. Now, there was only silence--deathly silence.

The following morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths. When she found the lifeless body of the man by the window, she was saddened and called the hospital attendant to take it away--no words, no fuss. As soon as it seemed appropriate, the man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.

Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look. Finally, he would have the joy of seeing it all himself. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed. It faced a blank wall.

Author Unknown



I hope you enjoyed the story and hope you'll join us tonight for a very inspirational and empowering show.  Below are all of the details.

Show Topic: Rebuilding Your Life for Success
When: Monday, June 28, 2010
Where: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/thewomensempowerhour/2010/06/29/rebuilding-your-life-for-success 
 
Time: 6:00 p.m. PST, 7:00 p.m. MST, 8:00 p.m. CST, 9:00 p.m. EST
Call-in number: 718-506-1720 (to ask a question or to listen in)

Have a great week!


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